Christian Couples Counseling in Lee's Summit, MO | Genesis

You're both tired of having the same fight.

You can love each other and still be stuck. That's what this room is for.

Christian couples counseling in Lee's Summit, MO.

Sessions
run 45 to 50 minutes at $125, private pay.
A couple in session with their counselor at Genesis

The fight is never about the fight.

Most couples come in for Christian marriage counseling in Lee's Summit with one specific argument in mind. It's usually one they've had so many times they could do both parts themselves.

That argument is not really what counseling works on. Not who's right about the money, the calendar, or your mother. What you two keep failing to say to each other, and why it got so hard to say.

You can be living politely beside someone and still be losing them.

What we usually hear on the phone

Yours is probably on this list.

A couple at either end of their sofa in the evening

What the first session is actually like.

You both talk

Your counselor asks each of you what's going on, one at a time, with the other one listening. Couples often say it's the first time in months they've heard the whole thing without jumping in.

Nobody gets picked

Nobody's getting handed the villain part. If one of you came dragging your feet, that gets said out loud too, kindly. A counselor who picks a side in the first hour is no use to either of you later.

You leave with something

Not a fix. A plain read on what's actually going on between you, and what the next few sessions would work on, so you can decide together whether to come back. That is what the first hour of Christian couples therapy in Lee's Summit is for.

Scripture in the room, not just on the wall.

Both halves of Biblical marriage counseling in Lee's Summit get equal weight here. Your counselor holds the Bible as true and takes the clinical training just as seriously. So Scripture gets named when it's the honest thing to say. And you'll also get asked about your sleep, your schedule, and what happens in your body in the thirty seconds before an argument starts.

Nobody here will ask you to pick one of the two.

Both of you are welcome whether you pray together every night or haven't been to church in ten years. Nobody's going to quiz you at the door.

A couple on the sofa in a Genesis counseling room, turned toward each other

Questions couples ask before they call.

If yours isn't on the list, it's the kind of thing Naomi answers on the phone in about a minute.

Call 816.272.0653

What if my spouse won't come?

Start anyway. Plenty of people begin Christian relationship counseling in Lee's Summit on their own, either because their spouse isn't ready or because they need somewhere to think about it first. You'd be surprised how much shifts at home when one person changes how they show up. If your spouse wants to join later, they can.

Is this just going to be Bible advice?

No. Faith based couples counseling in Lee's Summit is still counseling. Licensed clinicians, real treatment, actual training in how marriages come apart and how they get put back together. Scripture gets named when it's the honest thing to say, not handed to you instead of an answer.

Do we see one counselor together?

Yes, one counselor, together. Call and Naomi will ask a few questions, then place you with whoever on the team has room and seems like the right match for the two of you. The practice has been here since 2016, with seven licensed counselors and a supervised intern on staff, all trauma informed. If you've been searching for a Christian marriage counselor near Lee's Summit, that's who you'll find here.

Can one of us also do individual counseling?

Often, yes. It is common for one or both of you to do some individual work alongside the couples sessions, sometimes with the same counselor and sometimes with someone else in the practice. Your counselor will tell you when that would help, and Naomi will sort out the scheduling.

Do you use the Gottman method?

Yes. Our counselors are trained in the Gottman method for marriage and couples work and use its tools regularly. None of them is a certified Gottman therapist at the moment, which is a separate credential, so we say trained rather than certified.

What if we're not sure we want to stay married?

Come anyway, and say exactly that in the first session. Some couples are working toward reconciliation. Some are still deciding. Some are already separating and want to do it without wrecking each other or their kids. All three are honest reasons to be in the room.

What if one spouse is more religious than the other?

That is common, and it does not stop the work. Your counselor will ask each of you where faith actually sits for you, then work at the level you both agree to. Nobody gets pushed toward a position they do not hold, and nobody has to perform a certainty they do not have.

Should we come in before things get serious?

There is no threshold you have to reach first. Couples who come early are usually still able to hear each other, which means the hour goes on a pattern rather than on damage control. Waiting until it is bad does not make the work more legitimate, only harder.

Should we see a pastor or a licensed Christian couples counselor?

Plenty of couples do both, and they are not the same job. A pastor knows you and your church and can walk with you for years. A licensed counselor is trained on the clinical side, holds your notes confidentially, and can work on things like trauma or a diagnosis that sit outside what a pastor is there for. If you are not sure which you need, Naomi will tell you straight on the phone.

Can Christian counseling help us prepare for marriage?

Yes. Before the wedding is on the list of things we hear about most. Premarital work covers money, family, expectations and how the two of you handle disagreement, while those are still questions rather than the argument you have for the next decade.

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Call before you're ready.

You don't need to have the words for it yet, and you don't both need to agree about coming. Naomi picks up and she'll tell you who has openings and what the first session involves.

Naomi Thompson
Naomi ThompsonPractice Manager, 816.272.0653
Session fee$125, private pay
Session length45 to 50 minutes
InsuranceNot billed. Detailed receipt on request.
Where605 NE Woods Chapel Road, or by video